I’m back with my It’s Finally Friday post. If you are new here welcome. This is the space where I give my opinion on things going on in the world, podcast thoughts, thoughts on links I came across, movies, etc. It’s a relaxed vibe and we have fun on Friday because it’s the end of the week and if you got paid even better. If you missed last week’s post you can find it here. This has been a long and exhausting week for me so I am so happy to kick back just a little today and enjoy me. This week let’s talk Monique on club Shay Shay shall we.
Monique is back with the same ole same ole. One thing about a sag is we keep going til we say we don’t wanna talk about it anymore. She has kept this going for a long time like she needs a new story. The other day I was talking with a friend who said some folks tell the same story over and over again and don’t turn the page. Yes I believe her, yes I know she was hurt and blacklisted, yes she still pissed about it…how do I know…she keeps talking about it. The one sure way to know if someone is over something is that they no longer give it the time of day. I think that she should dead the issue after this and move on. She will never be a part of mainstream again and Oprah still ain’t going to apologize. I learned nothing new from her and I’m not watching her on club shay shay (can’t stand the name of his show or whatever you call it).
I do think that it wasn’t the message it was the messenger. I tell people things all the time they never listen but let someone else say it they listen. I think it’s a level of respect, a level of how you say it, and the way in which the person receives things because I’m learning that people receive things differently. I have learned to say it 3 times and then I just grab my popcorn and watch it unfold right in the front row seat.
Top 3 of the week….
My top 3 favorite things I use to wash my clothes (links are affiliate)
Arm and Hammer baking soda – I throw this in every load
ECOS Laundry Detergent – I’m trying to get away from the Tide and stuff and trying more clean things. I still use Tide if I need it and I’m not home but I don’t buy it anymore
Plant Therapy Essential Oil – Yes I add this to my wash the thing I do is put it in with the liquid detergent.